I have heard that admonition for many years, but only recently have focused on my own lack of patience. So many times when I have sought specifics in my prayer life, my petitions before God, I have wanted to see quick or immediate results. The fast and seemingly urgent pace of today’s civilized world leads us to believe that we are due immediate answers to many of life’s problems and challenges. We often forget that with God a single day is like a thousand years, and we often become quickly frustrated when those answers seem to have run into a delay.
In this regard,I am reminded of the words of St. Francis de Sales (1567-1622) ” Never be in a hurry. Do everything quietly and in a calm spirit. Do not lose your inward peace for anything whatsoever, even if your whole world seems upset. Commend all to God and then lie still and be at rest in his bosom.”In recent years, I have experienced a number of challenges in my life, and I have thought more about my own impatience. I now know God is the author of time and my existence is on His timetable. I am coming to a place where I am more comfortable that I am not in control of that part of my life, like I once thought I was. I am by no means perfected in this regard, and sometimes continue to speak or act abruptly. But slowly (sometimes too slowly to my liking) I have been graced to exhibit more patience regarding myself and others. And through this process I have come to see more clearly that God really is in charge. My only responsibility is to submit my personal petitions to him and pray for grace to be patient as I await God’s will to be worked out. Jesus help me do that today and every day of my life!!

